Problem Sex, Men of "No Hard Feeling"

An old expression says, men give love to get sex, while women give sex to get love. That is why women blame men because they do not know how to love, while the men blame the women because they always talk about love but do not know how to love. You agree with that statement?

Yes, as a creature of Venus, maybe sex is arguably the last problem that exists in every subject of thought or women, but for men, this problem is of course very attract their attention. In fact, it is said, men are willing to defend his ego if Questioning sex.

Dave Meurer in his book "If You Want Breakfast In Bed, Sleep In The Kitchen" try to explain clearly the intention hidden behind a sharp distinction between male and female sexuality.

In his book, Dave depict male sexuality like a gas refinery that exploded, while in women's sexuality was more like a slow fuse. Then, why did God create the difference was so sharp. According to Dave, at least there are three main reasons for these differences in the background.

1. Pressing the rate of productivity

Imagine, a woman as the producer of offspring will produce very fast like a rabbit animal. Earth's increasingly crowded and crowded. Therefore, women with a slow fuse his nickname will be able to offset the 'explosion' of men.

2. Understanding women's feelings

Basically he does not like tied to a relationship, or the depth of interpersonal with spouse. Not infrequently, many men want to have sex without love affair is complicated by the alias no hard feeling.

The existence of women who rely more flavor packed created by God to give lessons to men, so they want to learn to women about how to express emotions, associated (relational) and empathize with others.

3. Teach a man more mature and communicative

Before marriage, a single man was never discussed "What do you feel today at the office?" with her male friend. However, it is different when married, inevitably they will be dealing with you have always wanted to know and to learn more about any perceived partner. The existence of sex are later became the bridge that men learn to be more open, more communicative, and more mature.

Sex is the nature of man
Man as a creature of Mars are known to have large amounts of the hormone testosterone, which is 20 times more than the woman. That means, he one day without sex is equal to 20 days without sex in women. This is the biggest reason men want sex more than women. Because in the view of men, sex is natural rather than an error if they wish.

Men assume they do is sex hormone testosterone due to the pressure experienced continuously. Only after the sexual tension is released, a new man could feel something special to a woman. Although there are also men who just disappeared after getting what they want from women. Yes, all because the work takes its role of testosterone.

Nature also seemed to have menasbihkan men to prefer the quantity in the hunt, have as many sexual partners so they can spread their seed wider. While women with beauty that they have ordained for the quality. Charm by choosing the best mate.

So, Men give love to get sex, while women give sex to get love. Do you still agree with that statement?